Naturally Me

I love braids! I really do... They're the perfect get up and go type hairstyle for me, especially with having a baby and all. I've never really been good with hair, even when I had relaxed hair (Americans say perm) and so managing an Afro is a nightmare. Well, this wasn't a problem when I lived in the southern suburbs because my friend Jane would know exactly what to do with my hair and she would do it for free. If she wasn't around then my hairdresser Evelyn would do my hair and she was great!  Until she quit her job at the hair salon... Now she's busy coz she's studying and probably has side jobs somewhere... So you see my dilemma.

So I found someone who can braid hair (I won't say who coz it's not a good story) and  it looked GREAT. The only problem is that I was in pain for almost a week after the braids were put in. A week! Then to make things worse the braids fell out WITH MY HAIR! Guess where... Yup! Right in front... Great! Anyway, I got over it, that's not what this blog is about. What I do want to talk about though is how much hair falls out after removing braids. Am I the only one who experiences this?

And that's just what fell out in the bath tub. Nevermind the hair in the toilet or in the plastic bag... But in all this I learned I have a lot of hair! Lol! So after this experience I'm thinking maybe I won't braid my hair again. Hubby doesn't like braids anyway. So even though I look fab with braids he never compliments me coz it's not my hair... Oh the joys! I considered doing dreadlocks but hubby doesn't like those either. I like to twist my hair but hubby doesn't like that either coz he says when I do it myself it looks like dreadlocks so I must get a "professional" to do it. Talk about being picky! So I SERIOUSLY need to learn how to take care of my fro and  I need to do that fast. And I need to learn what hairstyles I can do coz I've had my hair in one style all week.

Yes... Boring... I know. And don't think I took it out... No, no, no... It's literally been tied like that all week and maybe brushing the front and the back so that the hair lies flat... THAT'S how BAD it is folks... I REALLY don't know what to do... My trusted friend Google is quite helpful... Now if only I had the time. If you have any ideas, please do share. For now I guess this will have to do. At least for Sabbath I don't have to worry coz I have to cover my head anyway... That helps... No stressing over hair! But as difficult as all this is I think I like the idea of staying naturally me!